Lakay was born in Portsmouth, Virginia to Calvin Turner & Joyce Robinson, who proceeds her in death. In the years to come, Lakay's parents relocated to Chesapeake, Virginia. In 1983, Lakay graduated from Deep Creek High School. She started a life with her high school sweetheart Troy Gatling and was blessed with a son, Donavon Robinson. Donavon remembers his mom investing much of her time with him.
In 1986, Lakay met Anthony Seabrook and the two tied the knot the very next year. In 1988 unto this union a boy was born, Domonique Seabrook. In 1989, the newlyweds moved to Jacksonville, Florida. 1990 they had a beautiful daughter Alexis Seabrook. In the later years, Lakay decided to move back home to Chesapeake, Virginia, where she was closer to her mother and friends.
In 2005 she worked as a Corporate Manager for Dollar Tree and relocated to Orlando, Florida, where she settled with her children. In her spare time, Lakay enjoyed spending quality time with her family and friends, shopping, and loving on her pets. Throughout Lakay's life, she has touched and developed lifelong relationships with friends and acquaintances alike. She leaves to cherish her memory, her children, Donovan Robinson, Dominique Seabrook, and Alexis Seabrook, grandchildren; (Janyia, Xolea, Xelyn, Xakai, Zamariah, Dominique Jr, Zionn), and a host of cousins, life-long friends (Cathy Davis, Tracy Alston-Hillsman), and god-children.